Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Ceremony Day




Ceremony day- Well the day that we have all been waiting for has arrived. Twenty full busloads of kids from across Canada, from PEI to BC. Yes, the entire cemetery was pretty much full and very few headstones were left unattended. The weather cold and damp, quite symbolic I might add, but the kids stood still and silent through it all. Unfortunately with a system to bus all students in to the Moro River area, we ended up being one of the last buses in place and therefore did not get very much time to really appreciate the size and total loss of life present below our feet. Only a few of the grave rubbings were completed because of the schedule and the pending rain, but we decided we would begin a new quest. There is nothing like making a positive out of a negative. WE have decided that tomorrow at Cassino Cemetery we will find new soldiers, and start the process from what is usually the end of the journey, a grave rubbing. We’ll see how that goes as some great ideas grew out of the last minute thinking session that took place before the march back to Ortona.
One of my “WOW” moments for the day occurred the minute Olivia and I found ole Freddie Boychuk. Almost instantaneously Olivia bent down to touch the grave and began to cry. Giving her a minute to compose herself we attempted to do the grave rubbing, but to no avail as the ceremony was about to start. I promised her we would go back.
As the ceremony began we each stood in front of a soldiers grave as the stories of gratitude and old were told. With many people getting emotional around us the “WOW” moments continued to flow with the tears. Kelly and Daniel located William Oaks and stood in front of his grave. If you don't know the story, WillIam C. Oaks was in the same tank regiment and worked in the same tank as Kelly’s “grundaddy” Earle Colwill. More emotions, more great memories.
As the cold damp weather continued on around us your children stood in attention and listened and more importantly thought about what it must have been like to in that area 65 years ago. We each had PEI flags with us to lay at the graves and before we left, I gave a couple of kids the opportunity to write on their flags and leave a message for their soldier and whomever would happen upon the grave next. A lot of thank you’s were said by Olivia and Lucas and Daniel, and I simply wrote” Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Because of you my children grow up in a better world...” As with my trips before it seemed so insignificant, but that was all I had to give, but it was heartfelt.
After the ceremony the large flag was unfurled and the windy downhill, and eventually uphill trek to Ortona began. The flag was huge and beautiful and took countless students took carry it all the way to Ortona. It took maybe 30 minutes for all of the students to make it back and we treated to a nice lunch before going to the afternoon city portion of the ceremony began. Soon I was going to have be in the spotlight and I had just gotten the script in the morning, oh well I am king of “wingin’ it” at TOSH so it shouldn’t be a problem.
Just as we were about to leave for the outdoor ceremony at city centre it began to pour!!!!! We still had about a 10 minute walk to the new location, thankfully indoors at St. Tomaso Church. You may be asking why weren’t the students bussed??? Well the logistics of that would be a nightmare as the city streets are about the width of your driveways, and 20 buses do not fit all at once in many European streets. So we walked in the pouring rain and no one complained, I would travel anywhere with these kids...by the way they want to go on another excursion next year. I told them to relax and let’s finish this one.
As Co-Master of ceremonies in front of 1000 people or so it was very special to play a role in this great activity. There were more speeches from students, dignitaries and most importantly the people of Ortona. The Mayor spoke of his gratefulness to the people of Canada for saving their city, and if you remember that little Lasorda lady I mentioned earlier, she was also recognized for all of her years of dedication in keeping the memories of the Canadian soldiers alive. She was very grateful and full of hugs and kisses once again. Because the altar of the church was so crowded, each time someone new came to spoke I was forced to withdraw to the back and each time I ended up beside Francesca who would rub my hand and want to hug me constantly. I have never felt that much sincerity and gratefulness in all of my life. I did not fight to save her city, but my fellow Canadians did and she has said she will be forever grateful and part Canadian at heart....amazing stuff. Another neat story was told was another survivor Tomasso, and I can’t remember his last name. HE spoke of remembering the Canadian boys fighting in the streets and specifically of December 28th 1943 as he and his father made their way back to the city to see what was left of their city and their home. They came across a Canadian soldier working hard to stir a pot of food. HE continued to say that the soldier came over to them with one of the biggest smiles and greetings he had ever had. The soldier offered them some food, beans no less, and he and his father quickly ate the beans as they had not eaten in over two days. They began to work in the streets with the Canadians in order to try to clean debris whenever it was safe and has never forgotten the helpfulness and kindness of the Canadians and from that day vowed to never forget us and make sure that every time he met or found out a Canadian was in Ortona he would welcome them with open arms. Another amazing story.......
Once again it is late and the kids are in bed as we are preparing to leave for another cemetery tomorrow as previously mentioned. It looks as if we are going to take a bit of a side excursion when we arrive back in Roma as the opportunity has come up to take some students to the ancient catacombs. I will hopefully have no issues with internet tomorrow evening and post once more. Sorry but not many pics tonight and the kids are already in bed. Take care and chat later!!!
dc

9 comments:

Vanda and Steven said...

Keep up the great posts. I cried through this one too. Emotional even when your not there! Have another amazing day. Hopefully the weather will be better.

Janet Andrew and Noah said...

Kudos again DC!! We are so proud of you Liv as are all of your extended family. We have forwarded these blogs to Bill and he can share them with his family.
Have a great tomorrow. Love the Richardsons

Gary and Marg said...

This was truly amazing! Thank you so much for your posts David, it's just like being there. I am so happy that Adam has been able to experience all of this, he and all the others will be changed for the rest of their lives. You've created a bond between all of these kids that will last a lifetime. I hope everyone is well and the weather gets better for you. Please say hello to everyone and tell Pat to watch out for the old girls.

Karen and Kenny said...

Hi guys,
your last couple of days sound truly amazing and emotional.WHAT a
fantastic learning and growing experience for everyone.enjoy the pics keep them coming.thank you again the blog is awesome, it keeps us close it feels like we are right there with you.Lucas we miss you big guy alot , the grocery bill is lower though ha ha!
ENJOY the next day or two, see you soon..love The Macleans..

Dean and Anna said...

Hi everybody (and especially Daniel),
Okay, okay now you have us sniffing here - thousands of kilometers away! I really missed yesterday's blog entry but was doubly blessed with two entries today.
It sounds like the youth of today just got a real live lesson in yesteryear's sacrifice and the residual gratefulness for all their ancestors gave for their freedom. I dare say the "lesson" will not soon if ever be forgotten. Thank you to all of you who have made this possible. We appreciate all you do.
Have a great day tomorrow everybody - soak it up! Hopefully there will be more sunshine to soak up too.
Goodnight and Good morning!
Love,
Dean and Anna and Matthew

rick kennedy said...

Thanks for all the information. It is emotional just reading it I can't imagine what it's like to be there. Yes I am jealous. Hey Megan I hope you are being good. (HA HA) We all miss you but are very glad that you are having and amazing time with lots of WOW. No classroom in the world will compare with what you will all come home with. Keep up the great posts DC we are all enjoying them. Take care and can't wait to hear from you again. Jane & Rick

rick kennedy said...

Thanks for all the information. It is emotional just reading it I can't imagine what it's like to be there. Yes I am jealous. Hey Megan I hope you are being good. (HA HA) We all miss you but are very glad that you are having and amazing time with lots of WOW. No classroom in the world will compare with what you will all come home with. Keep up the great posts DC we are all enjoying them. Take care and can't wait to hear from you again. Jane & Rick

Bert/ Marsha Arsenault said...

Great to be journeying along with you all. We're real pleased that St. Johns, Sacred Stairs and catacombs are able to be squeezed in to the schedule. Much too rich to be missed! Keep it coming Dave and keep Liam fed!
Blessings!

Karen and Kenny said...

david, small favour to ask,lucas
knows, if you could remind him i would appreciate it big time.please tell him to get someone to take his picture in front of the vatican pillars he has the picture of his grandfather there in uniform standing there in 60 some years ago and iknow it would make him happy to see his granson standing in the same area
If it cant be done david don t worry about it i know you and the gals got alot on your plate.
thks. ps miss you lucas dad
[kenny ]